Hi All,
Welcome back.
Its been quite a non happening week so far. Except for the festival of Ugadhi and the furlough that I have planned for the next week, there isn’t much of excitement. So, when there is nothing exciting to do, you take it up to TV. During the days of Doordharshan’s monopoly, there were a variety of programs. Nowadays, we have too many channels, but the programs seem to be the same in all. There is plethora of reality shows and talk shows these days, but my choices are limited. One such show I prefer to watch is “Neeya Naana”.
Talk shows on tv’s are like ‘letters to the editor’ column in newspapers, containing different opinions and judgments. More importantly, those are only the editor’s choice all the time. In this case, it’s the director's cut. Many a times I play the devil and its advocate during the post show discussion in my home. Since most of you (If you are tamil speaking and tamilnadu resident) have seen the show, I don’t think I need to explain the rules. Just in case you don’t know them, here they are. Two teams, one usually a bunch of stupid men and on the other side, their wife or girlfriend. Towards the end of the show you will find some ‘contract experts’ voicing their opinion. Often you can see Dr. Shalini, Charu Niveditha, Gnani, Manushaputhran and Su.Ba.Vi as experts and their opinions are preset. Women are right always; even if they are adverse. I guess these opinions are also the ‘director’s cut’. These expert guys are like “upma” in hotels. You will find them every time when there is nothing else to serve.
This men-basher show aired yesterday (25-03-2012) was no different from their previous shows. Thank God, this time we had two other feminists from the world of cinema as guests. Should I say more? I wonder how the host of the show Gopinath claims it be unbiased when all of them are one sided. A particular comment from a lady surprised me that her husband doesn’t give her the proper respect just because she is a ‘housewife’. The husband had just complained about her untidy behavior at home. He was made to eat up his words. Poor guy, he just forgot that this is “Neeya Naana”.
“Neeya Naana” supports women unconditionally. Even if the matters are purely family affairs or the business which is none of theirs. Why? Their think tank believes that it participates in the enlightenment of women rights and independence. But, they had forgotten a fact that by barking down and incriminating men of their attitude and upbringing doesn’t elevate the women status at all. Rather, it creates unharmonious situation across places where men and women needs to be united. There is a social responsibility that this show must adhere to. Time and again it should introspect its content with that responsibility, since it is widely watched. I hope that this show develops maturity in addressing such issues in the future.
Incase Gopi you are listening, please put up a really good show, the TRP number wont countdown.
With Love
Anand. R